Saturday, December 27, 2008
Friday, December 19, 2008
out on long drives would bring you up in the priority list etc. Its simple dont promise her you would so many things for her or such big things for her just take her by surprise. Just do simple but innovative things true love appreciate creativity than so called BIG things.
Praising & Noticing Her:
beautiful you find her esp when she isnt so confident about herself.This will make her feel that you value her even when she isnt at her best.
SHOW what YOU feel for her:
Take her in your life:
take, discussing some important facts of your life, introducing her as your girl admist your friends or holding her hand in front of them etc.
Get some originality and some humor:
count you up in the same plate as other guys have been so if wanna go up the priority list be creative think "Hatke".Cracking little funny jokes is essential thats not only to lighten the atmosphere around you but also because girls hate nerds!! they hate people who only talk about themselves or only about work or sorta only about any one particular thing so if you cant talk about variety of things try some jokes ;) easy.
Listening out her and reassuring her:
can handle like some regular office stuff etc give her strength n tell her im sure you can handle this. WOMEN LIKE MEN WHO MAKE THEM FEEL CONFIDENT.So Removing all her fears and insecurity and this would get a boomerang effect.
I am sure there are many more ideas and after this it will all depend if your girl is different but i believe these are some basic things that would work for every girl but again "Please be honest about everything" if you keep trying all this and you arent being honest may be then you are not honest either to yourself or to your girl.
Monday, December 15, 2008
I dont really apply a lot of make up but today was a birthday of my friend sonia who unofficially yells at my blog :D ...something that i got curious about all girls there was how their lips looked like well obviously they all looked lovely but i was trying to focus lk whats on a face that steals the show i personally feel they are your eyes and your lips (esp when you talk people do unknowingly look at how you open your mouth tats in instinct notice when you see somebody talking or explaining something you would suddenly feel like concentrating on other person's lips patially though ..n thats natural bz you need to understand what the other one says) ...so all in all i was chking out what lips should look like..
I came back home realised my lip balm is my best friend for my lips keeps it soft and adds a partial colour thats not like excess of glossy lipstick.
But thats for people like me who evade makeup ther are lots people who find it gud to put up lotsa glossy stuff on there lips ...
So i got back home and assigned myself some work sort to find out what kinda lips and what makeup or Lip Care do they need ... Think Angelina tonight ;) see this now
Full lips(God gifted !! ): Angelina Jolie style Lucky you! You have lips that some women would kill for. No lip plumpers needed your way as they're already full looking. If you have really full lips and want to play them down(for some proffessional look!! for what else on earth would you want to play them down ??), opt for darker colours, and when using lip liner, line just inside the lips.
Thin lips: Courteney Cox Arquette style Just as the name applies, these lips are thin on top and bottom. To avoid making your lips look too thin, stick with light to medium shades, and dot some gloss or iridescent powder on the middle of the bottom lip to make it look fuller.
Thin on top, full on bottom: Heidi Klum style You've got a little of both — think Angelina meets Courteney. If you want to make them appear more even, try lining just inside the bottom lip, and just outside the top lip. You can also try using a slightly darker lip shade on the bottom, and applying a little gloss to the top only.
Tip: using lip pencil to make your lips look bigger, or more even, is a common make-up trick. But note: it's only useful if wanting to alter the appearance of your lips slightly — colouring too far outside the lines can look fake. In short
For the Eye wait next Time :)
Friday, December 12, 2008
1st L ***Loud criers
Far too loud than expected they can cry anywhere.Seriously sick about crying and panicking. they panic about anything and everything from missing a book to missing a train like just anything from wrong icecreams to wrong dress just like panic with watever they have at hand....they are hard to tolerate them untill and unless they are cute lovely girls :P.
Well its very easy to deal with them IGNORE THEM seriously you cant deal with them :P to be honest haha :D . No i mean BUT if she's one of your gf's kind GIVE HER LOTS LOTS OF ATTENTION :D tats what they need ....they panic calm them and attend them ignoring them would make them cry louder for attention.
They arent real crier's not that they are truly hurt and tats y crying they just want people to know "Look at me something wrong has happened i feel helpless".... in short dont wry things wil calm down far too sooner than it looks lk :P :)
2nd L ***Lip biters crier's
hmm.. this one is tough to explain well they are nervous people kinda shy they dont know rather unsure if they should cry at public or should sob silently.Most often you would find them biting their lips on the verge of crying their face turns red n eyes watery lips being bitten due to nervousness overall they look cute to b sympathised.... Now they really need people with solutions bz these are people who dont kw what to do with the problems and far to unsure to kw that they can solve it themselves.... they dont trust themselves almost at all...
I have known people lk these esp when lemme say a girl loses something really costly she gets confused bz she doesnt kw wher to n how to solve the problems btw im not generalising it just that i have seen girl's lk this not sure guys face similar situations...in-short calming them down is 1st solution n next is to get them to some solution.
3rd L ***Lonely criers
these are a set of criers who cry when they are alone.
Most often they live in a shell that tells them you are too strong to cry in front of lots of people.They dont or cant blame anybody they feel there's always a practical aspect to everything and can come out of it and thats why its too hard to accept that you have lost something ...they rule out the fact that they can lose from anybody or can lose from life.
Its practically fine to be one of these kinda criers but what harms them it the built up pressure they consume their own energies expect too much from their ownselves and often end up building stress around themselves. Most men and high estimed women fall in this category they sob and sob lonely only to blame themselves at the end.
It is often made up of people who really mean when they cry because they cant cry in open they need space and lot of sensitiveness to be dealt with, they need friends and loved one's around who dont sympathise with them, Yes i mean not those who tell them life will move on forget this n that ...they dont need lectures nor do they need re-assurances in other words they dont want ANYBODY ELSE OTHER THAN THEIR OWNSELF to tell them what to do. They just wanna cry n want their loved one's to hold them Thats It!!
For wife's :: As most men fall in this category,leave husbands to cry for sometime if they feel lk they dont need ur sympathy just b with them. Dont lecture it makes things worse for them to deal with.
***Types of LEVELS
In all these crying i believe there are still levels of crying lk
level 1 - low
level 2 - medium
level 3 - HIGH
definetly most dangerous one is level 3 of loud criers im sure no one will stand to tolerate this its lk you have kept some bomb next to the person who is crying thats lk some firealarm lolz :P but trust me there are people lk this :)
truly and emotionally churning is level 3 of Lonely crier's as i said they add lotsa stress to themselves to hurt themselves more they listen to none even when they can have some real gud thing to listen they avoid as they start beliving themselves as ALL KNOWERS.
Level 1 and 2 of any of these 3 categories are actually bz at the end of they day intensity of each person to cry and react to a situation is different and levels along with the types can easily characterise them easily...I'm sure each one of us can fit into a category ....even when we dont accept it publically we all know some or the other time in life we did cry .....reasons and explainations might be different but its true that we do do cry and IF YOU DONT then you sure arnt human or else a liar :)
choice is your's
oops!!! btw im level 2 Lonely criers kind who's in my group???? :D
adios c ya
Monday, December 8, 2008
News piece -
That’s the conclusion of a new survey, which found that the ladies find men attractive as they look more intelligent and sophisticated, making them the perfect partner to go out with, reports The Daily Star.
The survey was conducted by Boots Opticians.
The results revealed that a staggering 96 per cent of women think men are sexier in specs. "
Sunday, November 23, 2008
FIVE MINUTES -
GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows) -
GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows)This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.
LOUD SIGH -
SOFT SIGH -
THAT'S OKAY -
PLEASE DO -
THANKS A LOT -
Friday, November 21, 2008
So my assistant Julia had fallen in love with me deeply. On our China visit she had promised that she would be just a friend and control her love feelings for the sake of my deep attachment to my soulmate Catherine. Fortunately I have found a good assistant as well as good friend in Julia. Like typical British girls she had not surrendered to intense sexual urges of the young age - a trait that I admired.
She was quite normal for some time. She never tried to cross limit or violate her promise. Mostly we had working communication and occasional friendly chat. On 30th of last month I was not in the mood of celebrating my birthday, as it was not possible without Catherine. Julia insisted that she wanted a simple dinner at my home, without any cake or birthday celebration. I agreed.
My mother and sister like Julia very much and often force me to marry her and forget Catherine. I guess they advised Julia on the day of my birthday to talk to me to start a new life. Thus, after dinner, they left Julia and me alone in the drawing room. After telling me a funny story of world famous Russian writer Tolstoy she suddenly got serious. She said:
'King, I have promised not to offend you or cross the secret line of your love with Catherine. But I want to have a little discussion. I do not intend to break my promise.' Two drops of tears were forming in her sparkling eyes.
'Say whatever is there in your heart', I replied. She was like an innocent child and I wanted to listen to her.
'I think it is not practical to live alone in the memory of Catherine. It doesn't mean you should marry me or forget Catherine to respect my love. You can marry any other girl. I want you to re-think about your life.'
'Which another girl can be better than you in case I decide to spend my life with someone. But.....' I could not complete my sentence as Julia suddenly cut me short.
'Then why can't you marry me darling.... You promised Catherine that you would become a great businessman, a billionaire. But I have seen you a little bit deflated without her. She will not feel satisfied. She will be more than happy if we live together because I can take care of you, and help you reach your goals. Can a broken heart become a billionaire? I doubt.....' Julia spoke in the grip of intense love feelings.
Then she realised her blunder and left the room throwing the following words in the air: '.............Sorry King. I am really sorry.... I must respect your feelings...'
I saw her cleaning the tears rushing out of her lovely eyes.
My mobile drew my attention with its ring tone. Catherine was calling......
“He who tries to forget a woman, never loved her”. - quote Anonymous
Friday, October 31, 2008
Compromise is to relationships as a sail is to a boat.
Without it, you have a relationship that goes nowhere.”
In any relationship, compromise means give and take, and it’s a part of daily life for all couples from small fights and teasing to loving each other,holding hands and caring for each other..everything speaks but sometimes you need to speak your love show you love show your sacrifice its important even though you are deep buried unexpressive person always know love and romance needs to be shown too after all we are al humans :) at the same time..........
What most often people dont get is that no one can have complete happiness ie two people on earth cannot be completely same you may have same traits same ideas but your wishes cannot really be same,honestly speaking compromise or sacrifice is something you do for your loved
one's because you dont feel the pain of doing so for them.Compromises doesnt mean that your partner is sad when he/she is doing them for you, it doesnt mean your relationship is incompatible or cant work beacause one of you is sadly or without will sacrificing NO please ....it just means have a look at them and appreciate the efforts..
Compromises works where both partners are looking into same direction and walking together towards it....you can often compromise about what you wanna eat where you wanna eat but you cant comprmise is there is a Fundemental Difference of opinion in both the partners.For
eg you can compromise about wat colour your room should be but what you cant compromise is when you wanna work while your partner doesnt agree so, you are far too outgoing wanna drink or smoke and your partner too shy avoid public glare, when both of you given same situation one judges it as right other as wrong..etc etc
lets take your housewife or mother of your kids after some 8 to 10 years down the line you dont even realize that your wife who has her own identity and personality has sacrificed all her wishes for your family and kids and bears responsibility of your kids alone while you find this as her regular job at home...it pents up deep feeling of being a failure at home while you enjoy the outskirts of the world their praises being the money earner....when your partner waits for you at home,for your calls and you feel there's no need of doing that its useless....
and your partner wants you to recognise that you do
understand these small hints in life it makes up big time in
Communication between partners without fear or fight is a great boon essential to live your life and help fulfill your partners wishes genuine wishes(in terms of feelings and being loved) not alone material wishes.When you talk with your partner make sure that both have the will to talk and listen to each other, if either of them prior to the discuss bosses around about not recognising your feelings the communication is bound to be a failure there's no success when there's no will im sure you all know it.But there's something more to it :) well for all this your partner and you both need to have clarity of what you want as in terms of result like for eg you want more happiness? more peace? more time with each other? more excietment in relationship etc etc list goes endless ....
Make sure your partner is intelligent enough to talk about
all this and you can gain something out of it too as you
know NO ONE IS PERFECT so there's no harm learning how
you behave or what you do that hurts him/her...there's
always scope for better life when you want to grow with
your partner :)
is compromising for his/her love's sake , you need to handle
it really intelligently. And most importantly Compromise is a word that can add golden shades to other relationships also lk who knows even out there your best friend is doing some
compromises for you to be happy....keep a watch :)
Stay happy with your loved one's
adios for now :)
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
A tear comes to my eyes,
I thought we'd be forever and never part,
Friday, October 24, 2008
Thought of sharing a forwarded mail with you all ashort story quiet again an emphasis on relations and love shared read it you might like it :)
Some time ago, a friend of mine punished his 4 year old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the small child tried to decorate a box to put under the tree. Nevertheless the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said " This is for you Daddy."
He was embarrassed by his earlier over reaction... He opened the box and his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.
Then he yelled at her:
DON'T YOU KNOW when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside of it???
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,
Oh Daddy it's not empty, I blew kisses into the box , all for you Daddy.
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged her for forgiveness. My friend told me that he kept that gold box near his bed for years.
Whenever he was discouraged he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there. In a very real sense each of us has been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses.
*Unconditional Love doesnt often demand anything from you it will never ask you anything.
**No guarantee is kept for the trust placed its mutual. Forgiveness and acceptance is the 1st rule you cant love if cant do either of them.
***It Often will not be able to decorate its love but would do something so unique would make you wonder there's nothing better you could have expected.
**** Love is quiet and that is when it speaks volume. Loved one's will never speak of what sacrifices they can make for you, will rather make sure that for them YOU NEVER COMPROMISE ON YOUR HAPPINESS :)
***** Its beauty is to be in heart bz you trust the loved one so much you trust they will never give you a heart attack.
****** You are most vulnerable in front of them yet you feel secure in their company.
******* Your love might stand far away from you,esp when the world flocks around you....you might be the center of attraction for others but for your loved ones you are just their world...
Unconditional love is bondless yet visible to the two who love each other. World needs language they dont.Its just their presence that makes you feel happy. So, There is no more precious possession anyone could hold. ITS PRICELESS...
Friday, October 17, 2008
I am sure life will hug me again I will fly again , will be happy again......
sitting at the close comfort of fire i think again ...
and sing the ballad of life again.....
certain from centuries is the truth of life thats lives and leaves you within
truth of life tells you its only you who knows you best a breath escapes and spells shadows on your life to know you are lonely again...
with lonely furrowed life you sing the ballad of life again...
Thousands of thunders have surpassed you,hundreds of
times you have been struck ...you are hit once again ...you
feel shattered and hopeless and you feel lk breaking it over
But you wake up to the sun again...
sing the ballad of life again ...
once again you live to prove your might again ... there's no end to the agony you feel in life but there's also no end to the joy you express with it..
you wake up again only to find that you can smile again..
you can live again...
you may have felt the pain
but sure it has bought in certain gain
so whatever has happened hasn't happened in vain
so forget the past and juz put it into the drain
and enjoy the present like a small kid enjoys rain :)
- adios :)
Monday, September 22, 2008
A group of 4 to 8 year-olds was asked, "What does love mean?"
The answers they gave were broader and deeper than anyone could have
--"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else
kissing me to sleep at night." (Clare - Age 5)
--"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You
know that your name is safe in their mouth." (Billy - age 4)
--"During my swimming sessions, I was inside water, with eyes closed and
scared. I heard my friend's voice saying don't worry, Everything is
fine. I will not let anything happen to you. I wasn't scared anymore.
That's love "
(Cindy -age 8)
--"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint
her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time,
even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." (Rebecca - age 8 )
--"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French
fries without making them give you any of theirs." (Chrissy - age 6)
--"Love is what makes you smile when you're all alone." (Terri - age 4)
--"Love is when you tell a girl you like her dress, then she wears it
more oftenly" (David - age 7)
--"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip
before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." (Danny - age7)
--"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken." (Elaine -
--"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone
all day." (Mary Ann - age 4 )
Kids are most clear and simplified in their thoughts, know what people say they are inspired by so and so person but its best to get inspired in real terms from kids truly we all are so grown ups that we hardly have time and energy to look and understand the simple concepts of our own feelings... we add tough words more vocab we call it impressive but they all are lifeless ... see these kids so simply and wo wonderfully have they explained what LIFE and LOVE is all about :) thats their innocense...
So if this Valentine's Day you want to tell someone how much you Love him/her be simple and honest that touch's heart more than any other thing :)
Honesty Still works Atleast in the World of LOVE :) .....
So count your Blessings and Go on hunt to Know What Love means :)
Thursday, July 31, 2008
I will never grow old
I will never be a bore
I will never cease to love
I will always be your princess
You have made me see things anew
For YOU, , You are the light that held out hand and pushed me out to the light of life
Sunday, July 6, 2008
A giant ship engine failed. The ship's owners tried one expert after another, but none of them could figure but how to fix the engine. Then they brought in an old man who had been fixing ships since he was a young. He carried a large bag of tools with him, and when he arrived, he immediately went to work. He inspected the engine very carefully, top to bottom. Two of the ship's owners were there, watching this man, hoping he would know what to do.
After looking things over, the old man reached into his bag and pulled out a small hammer. He gently tapped something. Instantly, the engine lurched into life. He carefully put his hammer away.
The engine was fixed! A week later, the owners received a bill from the old man for ten thousand dollars.
"What?!" the owners exclaimed. "He hardly did anything!" So they wrote the old man a note saying, "Please send us an itemized bill."
The man sent a bill that read: Tapping with a hammer....................... $ 2.00
Knowing where to tap.......................... $ 9,998.00
"EFFORT IS NECESSARY BUT IT IS ESSENTIAL TO KNOW WHERE TO APPLY IT "
short story speaks volume of how and where most of us often apply our efforts and why they go waste :) point to ponder
Monday, June 30, 2008
A new study found that two thirds of the people surveyed, reported hearing their phone ring or feeling it vibrate when it had not actually rung.
The phenomenon has been termed "ringxiety."
The more frequently a person uses their phone, the more often they reported hearing a phantom ring, the study found.
These participants (67% of the people surveyed) had higher monthly charges, used more minutes, sent more text messages, and showed higher levels of impulsivity. They were also younger. (participants ranged in age from 18 to 86).
The study also shows that some people rely on their mobile phone to regulate moods and maintain social connectedness. Those people who prefer to use their phones for text messaging, rather than talking, evidence higher levels of loneliness, social anxiety, and problem phone use.
Interesting most of us would identify ourselves with this crowd less or more isnt main but most of us do some may be due to anxiety over some special calls while some may identify it as plain restlessness over every call.....but honestly a "human touch" to life is more admirable than "chip n dwell touch :) "
Just came across this new study found it worth sharing no wonder there are many more miracles that cell phones are leading to getting it restricted to professional level than personal is definetely appreciable for human relationships :)
Friday, June 20, 2008
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you havebecause she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life justlike you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that,her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef fromday #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.
One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; when to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife;
and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can,but won't, simplybecause you won't like it, even though you may chose to do otherwise.
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly - Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
An poem that i found out written by an unknown writer so sure i am that this unknown writer is a woman :) apart i just edited and added a few more lines to this :) still the soul remains unedited i believe ...There's just something we said-
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
" Imperfection is always unaccepted while in others "
writter ...so true i thought of it.We all live in a world clogged with thoughts of owning supremacy over another, thriving to survive, struggling to live all sounding so tough to deal with at the same time so depressing!! :(
may b true because they do match atleast literally with the definition that the dictionary offers you :)
what about WE??
ARe we imperfect ??DO we know what imperfection is with regards to human beings??Do we have the right to judge this imperfection??
I am happy being Imperfect perfection doesnt rule me atleast never for others ...i would prefer to judge my capacity do them well than quiver about things going wrong.People around you might suggest tonnes of ways to relax or lose yourself give up the thought of being PERFECT In an IMPERFECT world but like all rivers flowing to ocean mantra is one
as and how you like)
SO buddy never again let the ImPerfect world rule you onLy then you would be PerFEct to and can truly say Im'PErfect ;)
Friday, April 25, 2008
Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."
The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.
"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.
"If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,
you will never let my hand go."
In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.
So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...
This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.
A point to ponder why relationships hold our hands its becauase we want them to be safe :)
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to
find his 5-year-old son waiting for him at the door...
Son: "Daddy, may I ask you a question"
Daddy: "Yeah sure, what it is?"
Son: "Dad, how much do you make an hour"
Daddy: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such
Son: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you
make an hour?"
Daddy: "I make Rs. 500 an hour"
"Oh", the little boy replied, with his head down.
Looking up, he said, "Dad, may I please borrow Rs. 300?"
The father was furious,"if the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow
some moneyto buy a silly toy or other nonsense, then march yourself to your room and go to bed.Think why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior"
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about
the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down,and started to think:
"May be there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs. 300 and he really didn't ask for money very often!"
The man went to the door of little boy's room and opened
the door."Are you asleep, son?" He asked.
"No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.
"I've been thinking, may be I was too hard on you earlier",
said the man,"It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you.Here's the Rs.300 you asked for"
The little boy sat straight up, smiling "oh thank you dad!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled some crippled up notes.The man,seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father.
"Why do you want money if you already had some?" the father grumbled.
"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied."Daddy I have Rs. 500 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.
No need to agrravate the whole senario because the simple act of the kid in the above story was enough for us to know what it mean :) so if you are one of those readers who can really identify with this story dont worry i am not here to make you feel guilty rather i am here to talk about something different :) for those who think this is merely meant for some parents think again :) because most often we come across problems regarding human relations which we cant handle lk going by physics we are under the effect of same frame of reference often effect by same feelings unlike the material problems where you simple chalk solutions....
Going back by this i felt like there are 4A's that can actually help you to amplify the amount of love you have in any relationship ( not going by only love please include respect understanding and humanitarian values too)...all upto you how many more alphabets you wish to add i feel like these 4 are simpler one's to apply for all :)
so Here they are --
Availability -- Are you available for your loved ones..??
Think upon i do not mean being available just at the time of need (esp if you have kids)....being available means making them feel comfortable to tell you that they can contact you talk to you and tell you things when they wish to .....for some simple reason that
1st kids cant often come up with an explaination of their
Appreciation -- How often do you relly appreciate people
for the simple things they do??Do you?
well most often we dont esp if our wife or kids do the small things they do often for us .....ok or if not then your secretary who without any reason at times listens to your squall??? or to those of your friends who often add more meaning to your life.
Life isnt just the same ball everyday like with friction of time it gets eroded and so we need to renew it no way can you change things and still expect same satisfaction.
Affection -- do we mistake affection it with love??
Two different words yet each one holds powerful emphasis on relations...Get affected make them belief you care simple connectivity can do that magic tell them how happy you are when you are with them dont let all things be left to be understood at times speak and say to them.
Accepted -- Everyone wants to be accepted as they are
Well i thought would leave the BEST for the last if you miss this you miss the whole meaning .......
As a child make your child feel world wont end if things go wrong initially be there for them to tell them life offers a chance to correct it again but not always so they need to learn rather than simply make them feel low because you feel being a stern parent with no time is more apt NO ITS NOT i am sorry i dont agree.With other relations it applies as well trust can only be established once you know you would be Accepted.
Well this had been a long long post so i felt i wont add more after this thats why restriceted with 4A's you sure can add more meaning and depth you your relations with many many more alphabets not alone A :) so Happy parenting nuture relations and treasure them ..
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Each day brings so much promise.
Every dawn arrives with a breath of pure love.
Having your hand to hold in mine,sharing our deepest thoughts.
Memories of your sweetest kisses carry me through the times we are apart.
Can you remember our very first hug?
Tears of joy and happiness blending into one.
Remember the first kiss?
Seemed so fleeting,
yet,it continues to this day,
never to end.
Our first night brought such nervous laughter.
Love finding love.
Lovers becoming lost.
Early morning coffee, sweetened with your kisses.
The morning paper being only something to peek over and around.
Winks and smiles crossing each other's path,on their way to the intended, as we pretended to be reading.
This love has indeed traveled such a wonderful journey.
We have seen so very much together.
Love allowing each other to see so much more than ever before.
Never forgetting just how much YOU mean to me.
Knowing YOU are so wonderful.
So happy YOU decided to take that chance.
So happy to be in love with you.
So happy to be feeling your love.
I dont know where to begin from but this poem is special for a person ...i did not write this poem but i know love had indeed travelled a long way in too short a time :) and Im happy it did ...Its might sound odd but I BELIEVE with love the rule of universe says like wait and see the things take shape themselves dont really be in a hurry to hold one catch one n force your dream on them bz dear everyone has their own dreams to live on and yes if it does match if will match forever you will really never have to go through crushes infatuations and hurt that most often we do .....so like i believe simply let things shape up themselves TIME WILL ONLY STRENGTHEN THE BOND THAT MATES BE AFAR OR CLOSE .......THEY WONT CHANGE :)
Monday, March 3, 2008
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Just because no one has been
fortunate Enough to realize what a gold mine you are,