Friday, February 13, 2009

Flower Of LOVE - SunFlower

Sunflowers are my personal favourite flowers , I mean not that i hate any other flower but I have always had a strong urge for the bright and beautiful lovely Sunflowers ...... 

For I presume Sunflower is  "She" Bright and Confident, Soft and yet so Innocent young lady an
   Sun being the mightier Beloved is "He" and then begins their LOVE STORY ...this is Honestly the most romantic story for centuries, sometimes so visible and sometimes not, see it realize it and you would kw what it means...... 

               Just the other night i was out for a walk after dinner with my mom, and saw this beautiful Sunflower in my own garden gazing at the hallozen light on street and admiring its resemblence with its lover Sun. That made me wonder and realize "Why is Rose the flower tat represents love??"
bz at the end of the day Sunflower's passes every test of being the mark for a true beloved.

Admiration and Dedication when it looks at Sun for hours seeming so smiley and happy admiring every bit of Sun's warmth
Respect for it knows what value Sun is to her 
Sacrifice she gives up everything to be with her Sun stands erect in the most upright branch of her tree and gazes him tirelessly 
Trust bz she knows that Sun knows whats best for her having faith on him that he will chose the best of his warmth to shower on her 

                        Each of them so beautifully woven into Sunflower that it should honestly be the Flower of Love ...

In Today's world where values feelings  honesty  purity is missing and becoming meaningless in everybody's life Sunflower's are so bright an example to remind you and me of 
" what really love should be like "

and for them "Love is TRULY Life"
They Live (food based) on Sun ,For Sun and strongly Flaunt it off to the world seeming to say " look at me I am madly in love with my Sun "....... sounds childish ?? to me it sounds valid and Romantic :)

I wonder if people today really love their beloved in true sense i mean its not important to build Taj Mahal for them or something lavish to be done but do they mean whatever little they do ?? hmm dont kw...

what do Roses mean to you?? why is it that for Valentines Roses are always out for sale in large numbers ?? only bz they are attractive to eyes?? or bz they have beautiful smell and have the colour of Love so called " red " .........

Somebody told me that a relationship is most comfortable when two people are friends first and yet we ignore the bright and Happy colour like yellow for red ..... is romance the only thing that love needs ??? i dont really feel so definitely has space for romance but before that its essential that the most importance things already be present in relationships and that is what i feel Sunflowers represent ....
 So thats why i object when only Roses are said to be Flowers of love........ :)

For a person like me I should say i like Sunflower bz there's some added meaning to it. Giving and gifting  something meaningless or something that everyone gives is nothing creative and big time BORE ..... infact i say Sunflowers are a blessing in disguise for all lovers :) why so i have reasons for you lets see if after this you feel like rejecting Sunflowers 

- In days when you are about to propose somebody for the 1st time and you have butterflies in your stomach fear of rejection and you still just want even after a NO,  he/she still remains a friend then Gift Sunflowers - why so??   yellow is a very happy colour and ofcourse the colour of friendship so even if your hidden love says NO to you he / she will still be happy about your thoughfullness about Sunflowers and when you reveal its meaning will be something very impressive to him/her....why not give it a try?

- ahh now when these days every round the corner there's lot of moral policing may b carrying roses on V'day can make you get in some trouble so why not cheer up carring Sunflowers :) its not always about love Why not cheer up a friend or an elder of your's??  USE for good causes  :)

- ofcourse most important Sunflowers Fit in your budget and cheaper than roses :) you dont need to hunt for some good breed sunflowers just a few of them is enough to make someone feel good.

- and take this chance compliment a girl saying " you look as Bright and Happy as these Sunflowers " something new to compliment her and a compliment she can trust on, most girls dont buy compliments like you look as beautiful as a rose (why bz well they also kw the truth )  but looking bright and happy has no day and girls know they can look cute and happy like Sunflowers :)

I dont know what Flower you would chose this Valentines Day but one thing is for sure whatever it be your love should be expressed only when you mean it :) be it Roses or Sunflowers ...
So i wont let the beauties Fight but i still feel SUN AND SUNFLOWERS MAKE BEST COUPLE for today and for centuries coming.......

Happy Valentines Day enjoy :)

Friday, February 6, 2009

Being Single...

The idea of Being Single is attributed directly to the the idea of bachelor hood and the fun intrigued into it ...

The Span of life is alone & long and not always so easy to be spent without a partner in hand, the ideology or frame work of any society has been to give certain means to people to befriend and attach themselves to partners of their desire and help human beings strengthen the bonds in society.

From Social networking sites to marriage sites to numerous others are busy connecting people in the means and mechanism of making new bonds .. and cashing in on behalf of them. Services in todays world have gone more target oriented and forcussed take for eg today marriage alliances can be made based on your taste and liking instead of what your caste or creed is.. whatever it be the idea of being Single in still enticing , excieting and satisfing.

And why not the youth of today is happier enjoying its newly found freedom and career orientation :) " no harm in enjoying the little life " is as they say.... who wants to pair up and take responsibility. Being with Friends and Family has one easy thing you arent held directly responsible for your actions neither does anybody care doing things at own free will and most important of all in free owned timings. But that doesnt make youngsters sacrifice anything nor do they bother about being chaste. New generation has definitely found new ways to mate and so has the world seen new terms coined in like "live-in's" , "short term dating" etc...(fight for what these relationships are and how to define them is still on)
Many more that can convince you that being Single is worth going for...

But is it so??
Always so easy and simple going to be a single?? Not always .... my friend Anjali(name changed) doesnt believe the same .... she has her own reasons for being happily married(mother of a kid) and for not being so Single :) ...
"If being in life is all about enjoying someone and willing to give away anything to a relationship what have you gained out of it?? " Anjali says.
"Marriage and love has made me feel whole and complete i know it would have been possible to still live life like a bachelor spending hours to work returning exhausted at home spending my money only on my own self shopping out freaking with bf's etc etc long gooes the list but still at the end of the day loving the man i know i have for my lifetime is something else the stability and satisfaction derived from it is immense family is my life now Fun of being single is there true but not constant for sure" and she ends with a giggle :)
Well she has her own reasons and true to her ....

Society has some rules laid and meant to be followed.. its a matter of choice to follow them or not since the rules made then where made as per general consensus and not as per an individual and apart ways then where much more differenet than ways now. There may be some set of ppl who would find Family life calm and peaceful and more attractive while there may be some who find the rush and haste life more alluring ...

whatever it may be as goes the saying "there's always two sides of same coin" so has this You may chose any one of them ..... Life's Open to new ideas be it Singularity or not just one last thing i wanna end with is remember..
"Everything in this Universe exists in pairs from atoms to matter to living beings to organism to elements ...if there's something thats Acid there will always be a Base ready to neutalise it.... Who knows when you find your Pair and change your idea :) "
and if you do change your idea about being single post in your comments .....

Thursday, February 5, 2009

What does Love mean ....???

A group of 4 to 8 year-olds was asked, "What does love mean?"

The answers they gave were broader and deeper than anyone could have

--"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else
kissing me to sleep at night." (Clare - Age 5)

--"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You
know that your name is safe in their mouth." (Billy - age 4)

--"During my swimming sessions, I was inside water, with eyes closed and
scared. I heard my friend's voice saying don't worry, Everything is
fine. I will not let anything happen to you. I wasn't scared anymore.
That's love "
(Cindy -age 8)

--"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint
her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time,
even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." (Rebecca - age 8 )

--"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French
fries without making them give you any of theirs." (Chrissy - age 6)

--"Love is what makes you smile when you're all alone." (Terri - age 4)

--"Love is when you tell a girl you like her dress, then she wears it
more oftenly" (David - age 7)

--"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip
before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." (Danny - age7)

--"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken." (Elaine -
age 5)

--"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone
all day." (Mary Ann - age 4 )

Kids are most clear and simplified in their thoughts, know what people say they are inspired by so and so person but its best to get inspired in real terms from kids truly we all are so grown ups that we hardly have time and energy to look and understand the simple concepts of our own feelings... we add tough words more vocab we call it impressive but they all are lifeless ... see these kids so simply and wo wonderfully have they explained what LIFE and LOVE is all about :) thats their innocense...

So if this Valentine's Day you want to tell someone how much you Love him/her be simple and honest that touch's heart more than any other thing :)

Honesty Still works Atleast in the World of LOVE :) .....
So count your Blessings and Go on hunt to Know What Love means :)

Adios :)

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