Friday, December 19, 2008

Smart ways to make Women fall for you !!





Under Promise & Over Deliver:
This is a very famous marketing rule which works equally well with women. Women set quite high standards for themselves and consider every one else beneath them(sorry but i feel its true). To get above her, you need to exceed her expectations. May be thats why when men try to show and do big things for her like: getting her expensive gifts or dinner at some expensive resturant so that it impresses them.
But for a change of fact its not always true. Things like simple cards, being on time for a date or movie, getting her flowers every time you show up, passionate and steamy calls,even taking her
out on long drives would bring you up in the priority list etc. Its simple dont promise her you would so many things for her or such big things for her just take her by surprise. Just do simple but innovative things true love appreciate creativity than so called BIG things.



Praising & Noticing Her:
Most women would like to receive the most attention from their partner. Tell her how much you appreciate her feelings her looks her values etc. Tell people about how amazing and
beautiful you find her esp when she isnt so confident about herself.This will make her feel that you value her even when she isnt at her best.
On a regular basis too, you should keep on telling her that how different she is from others, what is the reason that you fall for her. Women like to hear what their partner thinks of them. They like to be noticed.Thats a hidden fact they would say they dont like attention but see them blush when you praise her!!! Thus simple acts of noticing her can make you two get closer to one another.



SHOW what YOU feel for her:
Showing a woman what you feel for her can get her spinning in your arms. If you wear your heart on sleeves be honest, it can almost be guaranteed that she would do the same. Sharing intimate feelings always helps. Showing your gal, how badly you want her will inspire her more and will open her up in front of you.Tell her that how desperate you have been to meet her.Tell her how important she is dont lie for this please "Women can truly catch true praises and lies" .If you honestly mean it then this can make you win more than half of the battle.



Take her in your life:
This does not mean that you cannot do the guy’s stuff. You simply need to involve her in the acts that you do, in the decisions that you take. Making her feel honored and a part of your life can get her right in there. Some little acts like asking her to participate in certain decisions you
take, discussing some important facts of your life, introducing her as your girl admist your friends or holding her hand in front of them etc.



Get some originality and some humor:
Women hate when men copy. However, if you come up with something original and special for her, I am sure she would get crazy for you. Set up some innovative ideas for her birthday, your date or any evening outing and see the magic happening. Be creative dont be mechanical thinking of gifting her so and so would impress her not so happening idea dear rather she
count you up in the same plate as other guys have been so if wanna go up the priority list be creative think "Hatke".Cracking little funny jokes is essential thats not only to lighten the atmosphere around you but also because girls hate nerds!! they hate people who only talk about themselves or only about work or sorta only about any one particular thing so if you cant talk about variety of things try some jokes ;) easy.
Making your girl laugh is stupendous, But yap be careful DONT CRACK JOKES ON YOUR GIRL just put some crazy jokes she will find you lovely.


Listening out her and reassuring her:
Just be listening her side of the story, you can become the most sought after man. Put your eyes and ears to what she has to say, respond positively (no blame game please) and IF REQUIRED advise her. I put it in caps bz many men will advise unnecessarily even when not asked here it depends on the kind of problem your girl has and the kind of girl she is if she is facing some very serious problem and she cant find a way outta it you will find that on her face she is afraid advise her then n help her, if the problems are petty something like you feel she
can handle like some regular office stuff etc give her strength n tell her im sure you can handle this. WOMEN LIKE MEN WHO MAKE THEM FEEL CONFIDENT.So Removing all her fears and insecurity and this would get a boomerang effect.

I am sure there are many more ideas and after this it will all depend if your girl is different but i believe these are some basic things that would work for every girl but again "Please be honest about everything" if you keep trying all this and you arent being honest may be then you are not honest either to yourself or to your girl.
try this and lemme kw
adios

4 comments:

AMUL BADJATYA ( JAIN ) said...

awesome..... almost the gist of men are from mars and women are from venus.......
and these things work...(from my past xperience :P ).. thanx mam fr a succinct crash course ....

Shreya said...

yap may b everyone knws it but cannot apply right ... so here it was just a little trip to keep ur gf stick to you :) anywz hope u enjoyed the article.
keep posting
adios

Sumit said...

Hey Shreya,

I agree with some of the points which help Womens fall for you, but i dont't agree with all, like: -

1) Praising and Noticing her - here i would say, recognising the inner beauty is more than outer.. and i believe making comments all the time even disturb the partner..

2) Listening out her and reassuring her: - I take this pt. differently, i agree to the listening part but on contrary i will try to feel her to take her own decision but will surely support on wht ever she takes...

I wrote as per my feeling... pls do add ur comment also on the same...

Article is very gud..

Thanks
Sumit

shreya said...

Hello Sumit ,

would solve your points one by one ...

as per your 1st point

1) Praising and Noticing her - here i would say, recognising the inner beauty is more than outer.. and i believe making comments all the time even disturb the partner..

Reply - There's always other side of the coin, when i say praising and noticing her i never ment in any line to praise her outer beauty specifically infact i quote from my article
" Tell her how much you appreciate her feelings her looks her values etc. " and " Women like to hear what their partner thinks of them. "

none of this means that you cannot appreciate a person's inner beauty infact it simply meant that if you love and admire your partner make sure she knows that :) appreciating a person irrespective of the gender man/woman makes a person feels good and at the end of the article i always say be honest bz you do anything is obvious a person at least an intelligent person can judge if thats a true praise or a flattering :) and trust me a true praise doesnt come out so often that it would disturb your partner it would never .... rest its individual choice.

NOW as per your 2nd point

2) Listening out her and reassuring her: - I take this pt. differently, i agree to the listening part but on contrary i will try to feel her to take her own decision but will surely support on wht ever she takes...

Reply - Its good that you as a partner are confident that your woman can take her own decision and that is what i say in my article i quote " Put your eyes and ears to what she has to say, respond positively (no blame game please) and IF REQUIRED advise her. I put it in caps bz many men will advise unnecessarily even when not asked "
In my point i never meant that reassure her on every problem a confident true woman can handle her problems and a man need not poke his nose into everything untill and unless the situation is out of her hand :) so i guess you simply misunderstood my point it just said what you said Women like Men who trust and believe in them who can make them feel confident , who know that his woman is capable of taking her decisions wisely....
Difference of view point . Hope you understood what i said.
Thanks for posting your comment and reading my blog ...

Adios
Shreya

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