Friday, February 6, 2009

Being Single...





The idea of Being Single is attributed directly to the the idea of bachelor hood and the fun intrigued into it ...

The Span of life is alone & long and not always so easy to be spent without a partner in hand, the ideology or frame work of any society has been to give certain means to people to befriend and attach themselves to partners of their desire and help human beings strengthen the bonds in society.

From Social networking sites to marriage sites to numerous others are busy connecting people in the means and mechanism of making new bonds .. and cashing in on behalf of them. Services in todays world have gone more target oriented and forcussed take for eg today marriage alliances can be made based on your taste and liking instead of what your caste or creed is.. whatever it be the idea of being Single in still enticing , excieting and satisfing.


And why not the youth of today is happier enjoying its newly found freedom and career orientation :) " no harm in enjoying the little life " is as they say.... who wants to pair up and take responsibility. Being with Friends and Family has one easy thing you arent held directly responsible for your actions neither does anybody care doing things at own free will and most important of all in free owned timings. But that doesnt make youngsters sacrifice anything nor do they bother about being chaste. New generation has definitely found new ways to mate and so has the world seen new terms coined in like "live-in's" , "short term dating" etc...(fight for what these relationships are and how to define them is still on)
Many more that can convince you that being Single is worth going for...

But is it so??
Always so easy and simple going to be a single?? Not always .... my friend Anjali(name changed) doesnt believe the same .... she has her own reasons for being happily married(mother of a kid) and for not being so Single :) ...
"If being in life is all about enjoying someone and willing to give away anything to a relationship what have you gained out of it?? " Anjali says.
"Marriage and love has made me feel whole and complete i know it would have been possible to still live life like a bachelor spending hours to work returning exhausted at home spending my money only on my own self shopping out freaking with bf's etc etc long gooes the list but still at the end of the day loving the man i know i have for my lifetime is something else the stability and satisfaction derived from it is immense ...my family is my life now Fun of being single is there true but not constant for sure" and she ends with a giggle :)
Well she has her own reasons and true to her ....

Society has some rules laid and meant to be followed.. its a matter of choice to follow them or not since the rules made then where made as per general consensus and not as per an individual and apart ways then where much more differenet than ways now. There may be some set of ppl who would find Family life calm and peaceful and more attractive while there may be some who find the rush and haste life more alluring ...

whatever it may be as goes the saying "there's always two sides of same coin" so has this You may chose any one of them ..... Life's Open to new ideas be it Singularity or not just one last thing i wanna end with is remember..
"Everything in this Universe exists in pairs from atoms to matter to living beings to organism to elements ...if there's something thats Acid there will always be a Base ready to neutalise it.... Who knows when you find your Pair and change your idea :) "
and if you do change your idea about being single post in your comments .....
adios

4 comments:

Pawan Singh said...

It's true everything in universe comes in a pair but the things have its greater importance or their virtues are acknowledged to world when it is in single mode....
It makes u worthy and helps in pairing up later phase of life....
So Singularity is important !!!

Shreya said...

its true if u r not single u would never kw what value it is to b in a pair the hunch of loneliness helps to attach more when in a pair... anyways lk i said some people realize it some dont :) so its personal choice :)

btw thanks for placing ur comment n visiting my blog again :)
adios

Pawan Singh said...

After getting reading your, I too got interested in blogging and started my blog

pawanspeaks.blogspot.com

Shreya said...

wow thats great n a good name for blog to start Speak Your Mind and always be honest about opinions :)

best of luck for blogging...
tkcr :) adios

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