RINGXIETY

A new study found that two thirds of the people surveyed, reported hearing their phone ring or feeling it vibrate when it had not actually rung.
The phenomenon has been termed "ringxiety."
The more frequently a person uses their phone, the more often they reported hearing a phantom ring, the study found.
These participants (67% of the people surveyed) had higher monthly charges, used more minutes, sent more text messages, and showed higher levels of impulsivity. They were also younger. (participants ranged in age from 18 to 86).
The study also shows that some people rely on their mobile phone to regulate moods and maintain social connectedness. Those people who prefer to use their phones for text messaging, rather than talking, evidence higher levels of loneliness, social anxiety, and problem phone use.

Interesting most of us would identify ourselves with this crowd less or more isnt main but most of us do some may be due to anxiety over some special calls while some may identify it as plain restlessness over every call.....but honestly a "human touch" to life is more admirable than "chip n dwell touch :) "

Just came across this new study found it worth sharing no wonder there are many more miracles that cell phones are leading to getting it restricted to professional level than personal is definetely appreciable for human relationships :)

adios :)

Short story- By Vivekananda

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.Once when we were sitting at the edge of a river, she filled the palm of her hand with some sand and held it before me, and said this:"You see this sand carefully contained on my hand?

It symbolizes Love.

This was how I saw it: "As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there.

However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it,it will spill through the first cracks it finds This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meetlove...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the sand spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature.

If there are people you love,

allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.

Advise, but don't order.

Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Passing thought...Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....Life is beautiful!!!Live it !!!

Please Appreciate HER ....

Tomorrow you may propose a working woman,but you should marry with these facts firmly grounded inyour mind........

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you havebecause she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life justlike you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that,her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef fromday #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.

One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,

and yet never ever expected to complain; when to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife;

and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can,but won't, simplybecause you won't like it, even though you may chose to do otherwise.

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly - Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"


An poem that i found out written by an unknown writer so sure i am that this unknown writer is a woman :) apart i just edited and added a few more lines to this :) still the soul remains unedited i believe ...There's just something we said-

DID YOU HEAR???