tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post6796940684961210499..comments2023-10-19T04:51:55.193-07:00Comments on Meet me -- SHREYA: Forgive YourselfShreyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-49069155669991757122013-01-29T06:27:30.795-08:002013-01-29T06:27:30.795-08:00Thank you Debopam. Checked your blog on several oc...Thank you Debopam. Checked your blog on several occasions beautiful pics.<br />Welcome here to my blog.<br />Keep posting.Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-66358876997905478772011-10-26T23:40:46.232-07:002011-10-26T23:40:46.232-07:00Thank you Saucy :)Thank you Saucy :)Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-63920164131128249452011-10-26T21:36:12.542-07:002011-10-26T21:36:12.542-07:00Hi Shreya. All I can say is a nice topic and very ...Hi Shreya. All I can say is a nice topic and very thoughtful words from you as always.Sauchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02267540324625364232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-3541688998797440392011-10-25T08:14:39.444-07:002011-10-25T08:14:39.444-07:00@Nirmala .. hello again :) and thank you for calli...@Nirmala .. hello again :) and thank you for calling me wise though i don't agree I'm wise yet just learning ... knowledge is such a wholesome word you cannot separate wisdom from skills there. I mean learning to drive a car is skill but learning how to drive it with responsibility is wisdom but both are knowledge.<br /><br />Now coming to your point dear false guilt is a word that adds confusion into our minds , i mean either you do something wrong according to your values or you do something right.<br />Step 1 : First decide on our own values and beliefs. Think and know what is HURT for you?? <br />Ask questions like Would you have felt hurt if the same would have happened to you?<br />Did my action go against my nature of peace and love?<br />Did it disturb me from inside? Am i restless?.<br /> For example you know your parents love you lots and some day you stay out of home for long, they feel panic and say something to you in return you get back angry and hurt them.<br />The moment you say something hurtful you know inside you it was wrong because it is in your values to reflect back love and affection of your parents. But you did not do so which is why it generated an uncomfortable feeling.<br /><br />I am not talking about others reaction of infusing guilt example some gf's (not all) cry create drama to make their bf feel guilty, I aint talking about that just simply the feeling where silence hurts you back.<br /><br />Step 2: Once you think back on your actions and have decided if it was actually a guilt. It dilutes doubt of false guilt. Then confront and take responsibility of it. Accept it.<br />If possible face people you feel you might have hurt just once. It adds faith inside you. <br /><br />Step 3: Forgive yourself. You have done what could have been done. How others take is is their reaction and their end of karma. You never know it might be just inside you may be the other person has already forgiven you. You just never know.<br /><br />And if they didn't then may be it was their karma to keep the burden on and on not yours :). It is never your weakness it is your strength. Face it.<br /><br />Hope that helps Nirmala.<br />Sorry for Loooonnngg comment. I had to delete some stuff to keep this short else it was going on and on :P. <br />Thanks for your comment.Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-26482912166654806732011-10-25T07:53:23.963-07:002011-10-25T07:53:23.963-07:00@Soumyadeep ... well there was no compulsion and m...@Soumyadeep ... well there was no compulsion and my juniors knew i'd never rag anyone :P let alone make them call me ma'am but i guess it was their wish to not call their seniors by their name so may be that is why kept saying ma'am :)<br /><br />and thank you for calling me by my name :)Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-4397518142441344082011-10-25T01:25:24.090-07:002011-10-25T01:25:24.090-07:00hi shreya, lovely thought with a lot of depth....y...hi shreya, lovely thought with a lot of depth....you are quite wise dear...having wisdom is better than gaining knowledge. it is my perception. Again everything is a matter of perspective. even guilt. what do you say about false guilt shreya? you know in your heart of hearts you have done nothing wrong but still wonder whether you did something to hurt the other person!! is it weakness?Nirmalahttp://simplyshreya.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-24166991073110394262011-10-25T01:25:09.772-07:002011-10-25T01:25:09.772-07:00hi shreya, lovely thought with a lot of depth....y...hi shreya, lovely thought with a lot of depth....you are quite wise dear...having wisdom is better than gaining knowledge. it is my perception. Again everything is a matter of perspective. even guilt. what do you say about false guilt shreya? you know in your heart of hearts you have done nothing wrong but still wonder whether you did something to hurt the other person!! is it weakness?Nirmalahttp://simplyshreya.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-81405080306181567902011-10-24T12:58:49.497-07:002011-10-24T12:58:49.497-07:00so ur juniors used to call u ma'am...dats nt f...so ur juniors used to call u ma'am...dats nt fair...for us it was only during ragging period..Sir was used..<br />ok..I ll call Shreya...<br />by the way Shreya is a very beautiful name...no doubt in that...Soumyadeephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03537647111727107285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-55490714868325002322011-10-23T00:04:13.000-07:002011-10-23T00:04:13.000-07:00@Suruchi ... oops im blushing :P i don't know ...@Suruchi ... oops im blushing :P i don't know about depth of sensibility i just know that i love learning and one cannot own knowledge completely so it is always good to keep learning from whatever sources possible. :)<br /><br />And i so agree with your point that it is difficult to recognize guilt , i mean so many times we feel bad something upsetting inside us and we are so unaware why we are upset at all ?? That so many times some tiny winy guilt works inside us.<br /><br />Always love your comments suruchi :) and Yay !! you called me shreya this time :D not shriya :P<br /><br />love<br />Shreya :)Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-91093842822844281732011-10-22T07:55:39.699-07:002011-10-22T07:55:39.699-07:00wow...i read this, marvelled at your in depth sens...wow...i read this, marvelled at your in depth sense of sensibility...wondered how someone so young could be so mature and reading it again now to gather the full import!<br /><br />great job done as always shreya, if only guilt was just as easily recognized, let alone battled with:-)Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-79796062917628697742011-10-22T07:10:40.248-07:002011-10-22T07:10:40.248-07:00@Soumyadeep... Thank you for your appreciation :-)...@Soumyadeep... Thank you for your appreciation :-) and i also completely agree with your point. It ultimately depends on individual preference but it is just that there has to be a cloak of rules loosely tied around so that the society keeps working properly yes again what and how often it should keep changing is debatable.<br /><br />Btw Please don't call me ma'am sounds odd coming from a fellow blogger , it reminds me of my juniors in college :) Shreya is good name isn't it ?Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-33026955260759877232011-10-22T00:39:16.010-07:002011-10-22T00:39:16.010-07:00so u r back wid a bang...:-)
knowledge can be both...so u r back wid a bang...:-)<br />knowledge can be both boon or bane..take for example nuclear energy...<br /><br />wat I feel is right or wrong is quite subjective..it varies with individual & society.<br /><br />we all need to suffer our karma...then why is dis judgement..bcoz ultmately what we are facing today is d result of our deeds...<br />nice post ma'am...<br /><br />http://ideas-forum.blogspot.comSoumyadeephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03537647111727107285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-30413108764125257282011-10-21T23:50:41.196-07:002011-10-21T23:50:41.196-07:00You are welcome pavani :) and thanks a lot for rea...You are welcome pavani :) and thanks a lot for reading this.Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-52499708638540381202011-10-21T11:20:54.338-07:002011-10-21T11:20:54.338-07:00amazing post shreya..need them a lot right now!!amazing post shreya..need them a lot right now!!pavani reddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07157910942960838617noreply@blogger.com