tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post5414775032192000642..comments2023-10-19T04:51:55.193-07:00Comments on Meet me -- SHREYA: How to bring Truth in our livesShreyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-12327130079047532592012-11-07T06:22:46.029-08:002012-11-07T06:22:46.029-08:00that is indeed so sweet of you @JaiMaaDurga i real...that is indeed so sweet of you @JaiMaaDurga i really did not pay heed to such comments. I thought the only one's which have links are spam oops need to careful next time onwards. Thank you again.<br /><br />And yap i am writing my next post doing kind of a bit research kind of trying to see the efects on my thoughts on people around me observing them and myself bit by bit. The next topic that i have planned is a bit heavy weight stuff and i dont want to scare my readers away my making it complex so i need to simplify it (like my blog ;) simplyshreya) and thus make it lucid.<br /><br />Just stay around would soon pitch it forward.<br />Thanks again take care.<br />adios :)Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-18073496183133107092012-11-06T14:27:24.131-08:002012-11-06T14:27:24.131-08:00Namaste Shreya,
I admit to hoping you do not wait...Namaste Shreya,<br /><br />I admit to hoping you do not wait<br />too long before writing again, your thoughts are well worth sharing!<br />Just in case you were not aware of this, the last two comments may have not been actual readers- often when a comment is very generalized praise and refers to nothing that is actually discussed, it is form of spam... if you look at blogs or forums that have not been updated for years, but have many recent comments, they are often of this nature "Great info, good writing, very helpful" etc.<br /><br />I also hope Maa Durga blessed you this Navaratri, and may Maa Lakshmi<br />bless you and your family this Diwali :)<br />JAI MATA DI JaiMaaDurganoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-46283776861941265882012-10-26T06:39:00.173-07:002012-10-26T06:39:00.173-07:00@anonymous
Thank u for reading and appreciating t...@anonymous<br /><br />Thank u for reading and appreciating this , readers like you and your comments are always an inspiration to keep writing posts like these. Yap sometimes i too wonder why people don't read my posts unlike other blog but then i know people around me want quick high not a high that i live on which is constant and always :). It is something you need to experience and i can only write with whatever understanding i have but i cannot help anyone to feel it. So now i don't bother if web engine really puts it up or down any search because one who is in search always finds it like you did. :)<br />I am glad at your comment seriously thank u again :)<br />Tkcr.Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-34701437483428463362012-10-26T04:21:21.396-07:002012-10-26T04:21:21.396-07:00Terrific work! This is the type of information tha...Terrific work! This is the type of information that should be shared around the web. Shame on the search engines for not positioning this post higher!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-42567750005420775962012-10-23T06:53:18.910-07:002012-10-23T06:53:18.910-07:00@Anonymous... hi anonymous :) i just keep reading ...@Anonymous... hi anonymous :) i just keep reading lotsa stuff and keep drawing my inspiration from them , sometimes my dream world offers me more solutions than outside world this one topic was a part of my dream world solution :) i know some of my solutions arent very rational to many people because they don't solve problem immediately but i stress that it is important to achieve peace in long term than immediate profit.<br /><br />I feel so good that in my little way i could be a part of your mission it is all my honour.<br /><br />Thanks again keep visiting.<br />tkcr :)Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-66038081170944346592012-10-23T06:42:36.523-07:002012-10-23T06:42:36.523-07:00I am not sure where you are getting your informati...I am not sure where you are getting your information, but good topic. I needs to spend some time learning much more or understanding more. Thanks for fantastic info I was looking for this information for my mission.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-70127542842175384892012-10-20T07:43:27.217-07:002012-10-20T07:43:27.217-07:00So true Nirmala , truth is not absolute. It depend...So true Nirmala , truth is not absolute. It depends on perception of each one of us. Like for two people beauty can have different definition for one it might be external beauty for other it might be inner beauty so when they say you are beautiful it would have different meaning all together for the other one.<br /><br />That's why in this whole article i kept insisting that even if we don't have the strength to speak truth because we fear of hurting others we can still listen to truth and encourage others to speak truth to us by being stable in our reactions towards that truth eventually people will be more stable to listen to truth as well then we'd be able to speak truth without fear of hurting them.<br /><br />Love writing back to you Nirmala thank you to you :)<br /><br />tkcrShreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-49826249215649090112012-10-20T00:14:52.024-07:002012-10-20T00:14:52.024-07:00Thank you so much shreya for your
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i real...Thank you so much shreya for your<br />comments.<br />i really appreciate your patience.<br />sometimes i really wonder whether i should be diplomatic and refrain from telling the truth for the fear of hurting someone, or i should be straightforward, say the truth and then feel guilty 'coz i have hurt someone! <br />Truth is not absolute na shreya.<br />i believe something, the other person believes something else and there are conflicts! Nirmalanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-30842416830640526522012-10-17T01:21:37.130-07:002012-10-17T01:21:37.130-07:00@ Nirmala
I am so sorry nirmala the day you comme...@ Nirmala<br /><br />I am so sorry nirmala the day you commented here i was ill and couldn't put up my comment. Next day i came up and placed my comment but somehow oday when i came to comment again i saw my comment is gone :( . I am so sorry dear you had to wait for so long i thought i had already written must have been some technical error i guess. All my long comment vanished :P :O<br /><br />Anyways i won't run away anywhere so i can write down to you again.<br />:)<br /><br />You know what nirmala i don't think our parents really ever thought about this i mean we usually don't think when we explain things to children esp about the kind of contradictions our statements make. Though it is unintentional and parents say what they say with all their good but we end up being complex characters as grown up then those complex charatacters take further responsibility of their children and they then become more complex. No wonder children today have so much to face . :)<br /><br />"to say only the truth and nothing but the truth"<br /><br />To say truth would mean say what you have on mind. That is your speech and mind should be in harmony only then your mind shall be at peace. Scientifically also proven that body reacts like fastened heart beats if the person says something he is not convinced about. So truth is what you are convinced about. Parents said it to us so that we always have peaceful life.<br /><br /> "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything!"<br />I think they say this bz they understood our dependency on others and they knew that a lot of our happiness and peace depended on others reaction towards us so if there was no escape then silence is better than hard truth.<br /><br /> Yes listeners are definitely weak that is why if we becoe a single listener who is capable of listening to truth and is able to handle it better than others over the time speakers would turn to listeners bz they would begin to absorb our strength in themselves. See if head of a family has certain character then it slowly comes into others similarly if I am able to listen to truth better others to sooner or later would be able to listen to truth better.<br />I think this would take time but it is better to be late than never. Why presume everyone is weak , if they can't listen to truth why don't i try be a better listener. Removing fear works good in almost all relationships.<br /><br />:) Thanks Nirmala for having patience with me.<br />Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-8581009620299880792012-10-17T01:07:23.043-07:002012-10-17T01:07:23.043-07:00Hi Dhara :)
Just visited your blog and read your p...Hi Dhara :)<br />Just visited your blog and read your post on roomies .. it was so adorable :) me following you but i couldn't comment on your post there is some issue with my internet explorer and blogspot. I can comment If you could adjust your comment setting so that the comment window opens up in a new window. I am so sorry i couldn't comment right now bz of this error.<br /><br />Thank you for liking my blog.<br />Visit again.Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-55149149731092109612012-10-11T02:30:52.995-07:002012-10-11T02:30:52.995-07:00As usual, beautiful and thought provoking article ...As usual, beautiful and thought provoking article shreya.<br /><br />i consider myself a bundle of contradiction which goes back to my childhood days when we have been drilled day in and day out to say only the truth and nothing but the truth. on the other hand,we have also been taught "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything!". after reading your article, i wonder whether our parents thought the listeners to be always weak and may not be willing to accept the truth!<br /><br />i think when both the speaker and the listener become vulnerable to the point of opening up to speak and to listen, without the fear of being judged or judgmental, that is the highest form of truth.<br /><br />Thanks Shreya. i really love your thought pattern.Nirmalanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-70186548978410504582012-10-11T00:01:49.456-07:002012-10-11T00:01:49.456-07:00So wonderfully explained in this example :) had th...So wonderfully explained in this example :) had the driver had a little more faith in the present he wouldn't have gone into projecting such a negative future. Most of us live like that resenting or fearing past or future. We hardly live in present this very moment and may be that is why an honest communication never happens. I mean if there lies so much of fear who would be able to talk forget solving it.<br /><br /><br />Honesty of any kind needs courage, that is why i feel when we show courage of listening the other person will eventually show courage of speaking and over the time they would develop the courage of listening too. :)<br /><br />Thank you so much for your comment @JaiMaaDurga.<br />Shreyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15186435108883720247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2558578402699001119.post-31452577891775117982012-10-10T12:08:30.394-07:002012-10-10T12:08:30.394-07:00Very good points; one form of (C) that can also be...Very good points; one form of (C) that can also be seen quite often, is that relationship where both speaker and listener are weak, and reinforce and embrace each other's dishonesty and delusion... it is tragic when this occurs on a larger scale in the form of cults like Heaven's Gate or Aum Shinrikyo. <br /><br />Also, consider how important open communication on a regular basis is for maintaining a reasonably realistic understanding of the world- an example from the USA:<br />A man driving far out in the country suddenly has a shredded tire. Pulling over, he remembers he has a spare- but his jack is at home, miles away!<br />He then remembers passing a service station, only a few miles behind him; "I'm sure they would be kind enough to lend me a jack, that I might change my tire", he thinks to himself, and so begins walking back toward the service station. Yet, about 1/3 of the way there, he has become anxious; "What if they charge me for the use of it? I am not rich, but I would have no choice... how unpleasant that would be", he thinks. "They could charge me $20, and I would have to pay it!"<br />2/3 of the way there, he has become quite resentful; "Those crooks will probably charge me $50 just to use their jack.. the nerve, taking advantage of me like that!"<br />Finally, at the service station, the elderly and quite gentle attendant looks up, startled, as the man storms in, slamming the door- "M-m-may I help you?" asks the attendant. "YEAH", shouts the man, "YOU CAN TAKE YOUR $500 JACK AND GO #$%#% YOURSELF!!" before storming right back out again!<br /><br />I believe all of us have been guilty of this sort of "projection", whether negative or positive, at least once.. honest communication, honesty in speaking and listening, is extremely effective in preventing regret ;)<br />JaiMaaDurganoreply@blogger.com